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Submitted December 2019
Everything fell into place very easily - applying for a session, agreeing a date and time, finding the location on the day. And then, during the session itself, I also fell into place pretty easily, captured by Mistress Lola's exquisite artistry.
After a brief chat, Mistress Lola quickly took me into a submissive head space. Her searching questions and precise directions made it clear which one of us was in charge, and that person certainly wasn't me.
If I had to choose one word to describe Mistress Lola it would have to be "professional". She has clearly invested a lot in her practice as a dominatrix, and demonstrates abundant expertise, both technically and psychologically. I felt very safe and also very controlled.
Over the years I've been beaten by quite a few Dommes - some of them specialists in this particular activity - but Mistress Lola's impact play was really exceptional, not only in its accurate & very effective delivery, but also in the way that she picked up on and played with my feelings and reactions. By the last stroke she had definitely turned me into her creature.
Most of my sessions with other Dommes have either culminated in an orgasm, or not involved one at all. Sometimes I've ejaculated prematurely and sometimes this has been followed by a punishment, but the principal focus - explicitly or implicitly - has tended to be on my own pleasure.
In this session with Mistress Lola the focus shifted significantly - it felt like my arousal was simply a weakness to be exploited for her amusement. I was merely a toy at the end of her chain, twitching for her pleasure. It made the encounter feel very authentic and in retrospect even more arousing.
The session left me with a sense of some strong contrasts. Mistress Lola: cool, composed, amused, graceful; me: large, clumsy, vulnerable, trembling on the edge of an orgasm. It was just as it should be. The very next day I was longing to be back at Mistress Lola's perfect feet.
Submitted December 2019
Submitted September 2019
I'd finally decided to follow through with my fantasies and committed to booking my first session with a professional dominatrix, now it was just a matter of finding the right person.
Mistress Lola Ruin stood out to me, not only from her excellent website but her blog posts and past testimonials, which convinced me that she was a good person, one who i could trust with such a private part of my life.
I mustered the courage to ‘Apply to Serve’ Mistress Lola, who got back to me the next day via email where we had a back and forth and discussed a few things and answered any questions I had which helped with reassuring me about our upcoming session, but I was still very nervous leading up to and especially on the day.
I followed the easy instructions of where to go on the day and after knocking on the door was greeted with the sweetest smile, offered a drink and then we discussed my application, since it was my first time we agreed upon a general introduction to her world of domination, I was then instructed on how I should be presented when Mistress came back. I hurriedly stripped off and knelt where instructed eagerly awaiting her return.
After what seemed to me like the longest wait ever (in reality I was probably only a few minutes) I heard the unmistakeable sound of Mistress making her approach. As she entered the room I instantly made the mistake of glancing at her to see her beauty again, I was instantly reprimanded for this.
Mistress then explained how she likes to have her slaves worship her at the start of the session and after asking permission, I was graciously allowed to worship her shoes, then her feet, then her legs. I was then blindfolded, while mistress teased me and probed my mind, only being allowed to hear her soft yet authoritative voice, only being able to react to every unknown gentle touch was placing me deeper and deeper under her control.
During this I unfortunately forgot the proper way to address Mistress and for this, she punished me, making me bend over her knee and spanking me. The instant change from the gentle blindfolded teasing to the harsh over the knee spanking was a complete change in personalities and unfortunately the intense experience of submitting to a professional dominatrix for the first time and the abrupt change in treatment seemed to overwhelm me.
Mistress Lola recognised this and once again proving how adept she is at her craft had me sit at the foot of her throne in between her legs, my back to her while she gently held me and while speaking to me softly but still with that ‘in charge’ tone instructed my breathing to help calm me. (looking back, the fact that she recognised this and helped me in this way only proves to me that she cares a lot about those who sub for her and that they are comfortable and enjoying themselves in their sessions with her)
Once Mistress sensed I was ready to continue she had me crawl over to her bench and locked my restraints to it so I was hers to play with. Mistress teased me whilst making me worship her legs, feet and ass, I was in heaven, and then came the smothering, having Mistress use me and toy with me this way was so intense, allowing me just enough air before sitting her perfect bottom back on my face, her laughter echoing through my mind as she did.
After the session for me was just as enjoyable, I was offered a shower and after that she allowed me time, just to talk about things, not necessarily to do with the session, just talking, I never felt rushed or that she just wanted me to leave, I felt very at ease and compared to the experience she had just lead me through, it was an amazing contrast.
Something I didn’t expect to get from the session, was the sense of calm confidence, the serene state my mind I entered afterwards was outstanding, and just for helping me discover that I could reach that state I will be forever thankful.
In Summary, Mistress Lola Ruin both in and out of the sessions is a very impressive person, I admire her a great deal and feel honoured to have met her along my life journey. I am so glad I chose to apply to serve Mistress Lola as my first experience with a Professional Dominatrix.
I’ve been to see Mistress Lola Ruin twice now and experienced new sensations such as being wrapped up to her bench and an introduction to Anal play where she used a variety of toys on me (I had never done any anal play before this and to have her be my guide in this I am extremely grateful)
I’ve thoroughly enjoyed the time before and after the sessions in her company just as much as the time during, and I know I’ll be applying again to continue my training and exploration (Mistress permitting of course J ).
My initial instinct of her being a good person has definitely been confirmed, she is someone I can trust and submit to safely but who will still keep me on edge, someone who is happy to guide me yet torment me along the way.
If any of what I’ve said has resonated with you and you’ve managed to read this far but still have doubts, Trust me, you will not regret applying to serve Mistress Lola Ruin.
Submitted September 2019
I am compelled to document a truly amazing experience visiting Mistress Lola Ruin.
My first ever visit to a Mistress had been with Mistress Lola Ruin some 5 years ago where she had expertly and patiently introduced me to a variety of activities and experiences. This had left me wanting more and determined to venture further into her hypnotic domain. Unfortunately, and for many reasons, it has taken me this long to find a mutually convenient opportunity to once again offer servitude to an amazing lady.
This time my approach to Mistress was less anxiety provoking and I was more knowledgeable about the activities that I would like to explore further. I initially contacted Mistress through her website and received a friendly and welcoming response within a matter of days. From this point we exchanged a number of emails establishing the finer details in respect of the date and time of O/our session and Mistress enquired further as to my aspirations for our activities. My response was detailed and had clearly been read with interest by Mistress, as when we met prior to the session, Mistress was able to clarify with me activities that She may choose to incorporate into the session.
I arrived at Mistresses new chambers on time, having been given clear directions of how to get there. I was greeted at the door by the friendly and welcoming Mistress that I remembered from my initial visit, and the hesitant anxiety that had built over the preceding hour immediately dispersed. I was invited to take a seat in Mistresses dungeon, offered a drink and discussed the session that was about to ensue.
Mistress has opened Her own chambers since my first visit and she has done an amazing job. They are spotlessly clean and smell fresh. She has clearly put a lot of thought, time and hard work to the design and pulled together a space, full of menacing apparatus and equipment, that she is rightly very proud of. It really was a space to feel comfortable in, well, at least when you first arrive and again as you leave.
What transpired over the following 90 minutes was transcendental. Mistress left the room to prepare and I was left to disrobe and assume the reverent position at the foot of Her throne. The passage of time awaiting Mistresses return was unbearable, I could hear the distant echoes of her preparation, followed by the enclosing, unmistakable sounds of her imminent entrance. Mistress entered, positioned herself gracefully on her throne and presented Her boot clad, petite foot, to my downturn head and instructed me to greet Her in the accustomed manner. The sight of her perfectly painted toenails visible through the open toed boots was sublime and from that moment I was spellbound for the rest of O/our time together. Worshipping Her boots and toes whilst edging commenced was just the start and a clear sign of things to come.
Mistress Lola establishes control and demands obedience with a voice that maintains a demure tone throughout. Mistress disabled any concept that I may have
had left of masculinity, She made clear that my desires, wishes and enjoyment was of no consequence and that Her only interest in me was to gain maximum entertainment and servitude for her own gratification. A task that She was certain I would likely fail to fulfil and a failure for which I would certainly be punished.
Throughout O/our session I was edged to the point of frustration far more times than I was able to keep count of. Electrics were attached to my genitals throughout most of the session and Mistress Lola employed them with wicked regularity, coinciding with the many edges I endured, much to Her own hilarity. Mistress truss me to her flogging bench and reintroduced me to an array of her instruments. Mistress took me to my absolute edge of tolerance (but not beyond and at my request), encouraging me throughout and praising me for bravery.
Strapped face up and unable to move I was introduced to several pieces of equipment that Mistress used to tantalise and then torment me to countless edgings. The Tremblr milking machine was attached and I was brought to points of frenzied ecstasy, only for Mistress to suddenly stop, with unbearably frustrating consequences, left to dribble out with repeated Ruined orgasms. Mistress Lola does indeed live up to Her title in this department, She is most ghoulish and delighted in employing these skills. I was edged and ruined so many times that by the end I wasn’t even sure whether I was erect or flaccid.
Mistress Lola Ruin needs no description in Her beauty, this drips from every image that exists. In person Mistress Lola is every bit as beautiful and some. To be in Her presence is to be in awe of Her gorgeousness and to be invited to physically worship any part of Her should be considered the ultimate privilege.
As the session concluded, I accepted the offer of a shower and used this time to try and reclaim some sense of reality. I was then humbled to spend a really chilled and relaxing time chatting with Mistress. Gone was the alter ego (for us both) and we sat chewing over everything from the kink scene to single use plastics, whilst we drank a lovely fruit tea and chomped on lovely oaty biscuits. I left the chambers in the evening rain and my head swam with images that will not wash away any time soon.
Back at my hotel I smirk as I remember the ruthless skill with which Mistress wielded Her cane and I admire with pride the first ever stripes that I have earned, awarded to me by the gorgeous Mistress Lola Ruin and her trusty cane!!
Submitted September 2019
Having visited Mistress on several occasions I am always amazed by how much more intense these session become. I’m sure the reason for this is that Mistress Lola learns what you like and what you don’t from previous visits and adapts accordingly.
I have always adored the pain Mistress Lola inflicts especially when She uses her floggers and whips across my back. However, on this occasion I wanted the session to be of a less painful experience and more of a sensual one.
Following a pre session discussion, Mistress planned my session expertly, even suggesting I take a bull whipping for Her at the start of the session as I might regret it after the session finishes. Turns out She was correct. Again.
I absolutely adore the build up to a punishment as much and possibly more than the punishment itself. The sensation of being restrained to Her whipping board is just wonderful. Hands cuffed and secured above my head, ankles cuffed and secured to a spreader, then Mistress’ hand placed on my back and pushing me up as close as possible to the board as a She buckles a leather restraining strap across the middle of my back. Now punishment can commence. This time I was to take just 10 lashes from the bull whip. Each stroke hurt like crazy and were interspersed with light touches and cracks of the whip just inches away so I never knew when the whip was actually going to strike. As ever, simply awesome.
Whipping over I was asked to lie on my back on Her bench. Hands and ankles still cuffed and secured to the bench. I was then blindfolded. Excellent I thought. Time for the sensual side to start. How wrong I was. Mistress proceeded to wrap my entire body and head in what felt like a very strong cling film. I was totally immobile. I could not move a muscle. I then felt the heel of Mistress’ boot probing for my nipples. Once identified these were exposed and pegs attached. I’m amazed just painful a plastic peg can be. What followed was a painful trampling and heel stamps over my torso and legs. Next my blindfold and the cling film that was securing my head was removed and a pillow placed for my head to rest on. Mistress then produced a pair of surgical scissors and proceeded to use these to expose the area around my groin. Now the sensual side was to start, wrong again. Mistress produced a wallet of ‘sounds’ and encouraged me to watch as these were inserted in to my penis. This was a totally new experience for me and they were used in increasing diameter until they would no longer fit. Even oddly shaped ones were used. I definitely want to experience that again.
Next, Mistress expertly took me through several edging before allowing me to cum. At last the sensual part, wrong. The release should have been bliss, but Mistress continued with the stimulation on my already over sensitive cock. What should have been fantastic end turned in to my first post orgasm torture. I was helpless to do anything to stop this. Mistress making me beg for her to stop. I begged and begged and begged but She continued. It was literally driving me crazy and still I was unable to move an inch or do anything to make this stop. Mistress clearly enjoys this, evident by her laughs at my requests to stop. Eventually She took pity on me and stopped. It is without exaggeration that I say I was a wreck. Both psychological and physical. Mistress cut me out of what I could now see was a strong black cling film and I was saturated in sweat. I had to remain on the bench for a moment or two to get my composure back.
As is always the case with my visits to Mistress Lola Ruin, She pushes me further and further every time. Having said that, I have never felt in a more safe pair of hands. I say this every time, but this was probably my finest visit to Mistress Lola Ruin. She knows my boundaries better than I do. I can’t wait to continue my journey in to kink with Her...
Submitted August 2019
Submitted August 2019
It was a pleasure to meet you on Friday, I had been looking forward to
visiting a Mistress for a long time, since December 2017, and I had
missed it. Another achievement, I managed my mobility OK. Visiting a
Mistress is my thing, something no one else knows about.
Thank you for the session, it was very enjoyable in the way only a
submissive would understand. As someone tweeted to you yesterday, it
was ‘pleasurably uncomfortable’, which is a nice way of putting it.
First of all, I noticed your red nails, fingers and toes, which is
just a little interest of mine, as I mentioned. Those boots are
fabulous, open toed, so I was able to kiss your toes, nice deep
platform to lick and a nice rounded stiletto heel to suck.
There is a feeling of calm as I am strapped down on the flogging bench
and you stride around in your boots, and I am unable to touch your
legs or boots, even if I was allowed to. I don’t know how many
floggers you used, some thuddy and some narrow and stingy, but all
good. And when I was strapped to the bed, sensation overload, tease
and denial, three dribbles of ruined orgasm and I was drained, nipple
torture, tugging the chain on the clamps with the heels of your boots,
more boot worship at the same time, and then the pain when the clamps
were removed and the blood rushed back into my nipples !
It was great to be at your feet where I belong, and under your
control. I smiled all the way home and afterwards.
I will be back, thank you Mistress.
Submitted June 2019
Submitted June 2019
Submitted May 2019
Mistress Lola educated me in an extended session. I was allowed to serve her as a bootlicker before she fixed me and covered me extensively with colorful wax. In between she pampered my body with different devices. Finally I was allowed to cream the feet of the mistress and to be available to her as a foot slave.
After a wonderful NS shower and subsequent cleaning I was locked in the cage for the night. The wonderful Mistress slept over me, in the sure knowledge that the slave is safely locked up.
Then in the morning I was allowed to lick as the first in the cage locked up the heels of the lady. It was beautiful to be allowed to serve in such a way in a humble position in the cage of the lady. Afterwards I was fixed again, and treated with wax and whip as well as a milking machine. Finally I was allowed to feel and drink the urine of the mistress before I was relieved with the milking machine.
I thank Mistress Lola that I was allowed to experience an overnight session with this wonderful mistress. I look forward to a future session.
Submitted May 2019
I went to Mistress Lola Ruins today.
The experience was amazing. From the off, I was welcome into a warm, friendly, comfortable environment and was offer refreshments. She then sat me down and we talked about my interests. She was very nice. But don’t let this fool you. Once we were ready to start the session she was a completely different woman. From the get go it was clear she was in charge and of you though otherwise well let’s just say she’ll quickly prove you wrong. The feeling of being strapped down, gagged and at her disposal for any pleasure she wanted was absolute ecstasy. Easily the best dominatrix iv ever been to. Afterwards I was offered a shower and more refreshments. I then left but deep down knowing I had just been used and abused by one of the most beautiful mistresses ever....
Submitted May 2019
Submitted May 2019
On my way over to Ashton there was certainly a lot of apprehension. My mind was racing about would it live up to my expectations and my mouth was dry. Anxiety was through the roof.
I arrived in Ashton in good time so whilst sat in the car thought I’d jot down a few experiences I would like to try so I didn’t forget anything. As it happened I did forget things I’d mentioned in my request but when you saw my note you knew I’d missed things off and happily included them for me.
When I made my way to your location I was early and wandered around the streets for what felt like ages waiting for 4pm. It must have only been 10 minutes I had to wait but it felt like an age. Checking my phone every 30 seconds wishing 4 o’clock to come.
4pm came and I made my way up to your door. I felt like I was shaking. However when you opened the door and greeted me the anxieties eased. Invited into the dungeon we discussed limits and expectations. You then stood up, told me to undress, kneel where indicated and said you’d be back in a few minutes.
Kneeling waiting for you to return was like a legal high. I didn’t know what to expect but when I heard your heels approaching I felt my heart rate increase.
Where did that nice girl that met me at the door go? You sat in front of me, I looked up to see what you were wearing and was straight away put in my place. However I’d seen enough to know I might enjoy the next hour.
And boy did I just. Some things I wasn’t sure about and enjoyed more than I should’ve were the spitting and pissing. They were highlights. You could’ve have just spat on me for an hour then covered me in your piss and I’d have walked away blissfully happy.
The whip did leave its mark on my back as requested and hopefully will be there as a reminder of my time with you for a few days more. Marks on my bottom will be there much longer. It’s bruises and marks will certainly see the week out. The cane you used on me has left several welts and it was a pleasure to take the pain for you. My bum is still stinging and the feeling is great.
You also helped out with my prostrate issue helping get an erection and having an orgasm. Something that hasn’t happened in 18 months. And now just the thought of me standing naked and restrained in front of you is helping to get the blood flowing in to that region!! Something that didn’t happen until yesterday.
You have the most amazing body and legs that I will worship until the day I die.
It would be an honour if you could see me again. Thanks again for everything. An absolute pleasure to meet such a beautiful Mistress.
Submitted April 2019
My visit to see the awesome Mistress Lola was an amazing day that I never thought would come, having fantasied for years about seeing a pro domme but have never had the courage to do anything about it.
Somehow I plucked up the nerves firstly to fill in her online form, and then to actually submit the form when I thought I had no intention of actually doing so! I think it was because her blog shows a caring, real side to her, that seems so approachable and different to many other pro dommes (it was also partly because I have a massive weakness for redheads!)
I got a huge thrill when my application to serve was accepted, and I spent most of the week before in a state of total distraction and anticipation. When the day finally arrived it felt a little unreal but amazing all the same. I arrived at the play space (which is very discrete) and was greeted by Mistress Lola who was even more stunning in real life.
I did not know whether I would really enjoy it or be totally out of my depth - but I need not have worried. Mistress Lola will put you totally at ease, and in the conversation before the session you feel you can tell her exactly what areas you want to explore. Mistress likes to you to communicate with her during the session as well, so you can tell her how things are going. You have no respite and have to answer, even if your answers seem inadequate babbling, rather than how you are really feeling! You feel an immediate trust in her which is very comforting.
I was told to remove my clothes and be on my knees and head down when she returned. I foolishly failed to realise how I should have greeted her until she waved her shoe in front of my face and I had to be told to kiss each shoe. I was allowed to kiss and worship her beautiful latex clad legs, and I was still rather dazed and confused, but I enjoyed being made to shine her legs.
I wondered how I would cope with submission, but over the course of the session I found I wanted to please Mistress and loved it when she told me I was a good boy, or that she liked my moaning. It was also wonderful to hear her laughing at me when I was in a helpless and vulnerable position, or writhing worshiping her.
Mistress helped me clumsily get into a latex suit. I was allowed to feel the tight smooth latex all around me. I could not quite fit properly into the suit but it left me suitably exposed for the main part of the session. I was strapped face down onto the kneeling bench and then blindfolded. I then lost all sense of time and as I was first lubed up with two toys - one which seemed small - the second much less so. Mistress then used the vibrating wand thing to stimulate the plug inside me which was amazing.
Then came the moment I had really wanted - to be taken with a strapon for the first time. I still don’t know which strapon was used, but I knew I didn’t want anything too small. I could feel Mistress’s latex legs brush against mine and I desperately wanted to squirm backwards onto it. I begged her to take me harder and harder with it and she did. I trusted her totally.
There was no respite as Mistress asked if I wanted to be put on the machine - and I did. She released my blindfold but only so I could see her sat in the chair laughing as I moaned while she adjusted the speed up and down, up and down. I wanted more - but suddenly I had had enough. She sounded surprised but showed me mercy and said I could have my treat - which she had mentioned earlier but I had totally forgotten about!
My treat was to be allowed to worship Mistress’s gorgeous latex clad bottom as she perched on a low stool just above my head. This went on for what seemed like a blissful eternity, and I finally lost all of my inhibitions.
Then the session was over, and I was offered a shower and a cup of tea and we chatted a little more about how things went. Mistress Lola is a lovely person who understands what you are looking for, and I feel incredibly lucky to have had this experience with her. I can’t wait to return!
Submitted March 2019
Especially with the added task of what I am to be wearing when I do travel to see Her next..
Submitted March 2019
Submitted February 2019
Still being someone relatively new to exploring my submissive side in kink, you would imagine visiting a Pro Dominatrix would be incredibly nerve wracking and you would be right, but don’t let the nerves hold you back from an other worldly experience to come.
Although I have previously visited a Pro Dominatrix, after some time out of the scene, diving back into it with serving the beautiful, stunning, elegant Mistress Lola the nerves were felt even more this time.
As the door opened and I stepped into Her lair there was no going back and once She welcomed me with Her approachable friendly manner, coinciding with a natural radiant catching smile, I didn’t want to turn back.
Mistress Lola exuded an air of confidence and calmness and the way She managed to make my unrelenting nerves disappear with a just a warm welcome, was clear straight away I was in the right place serving the right Mistress and W/we would have a good session ahead.
After the pleasantries of talking about and respecting my likes, limits and interests, Mistress Lola exited the room and told me to undress and wait in the correct knelt position prepared to serve.
Being a keen author I could happily write a book about the amazing experience I felt in this session with Mistress Lola detailing each section, but I’ll keep the session description out of this and let your imagination run wild as Mistress Lola’s clearly did.
The session was fun, intense and another positive learning curve for me learning about kink and my role as a sub in it.
This time I felt I let go more than ever before as control was passed over to Mistress Lola towards submission. Working hard to please Her was the priority and at one point in the session, I even felt my head fain to rest onto her boot in acceptance as her property now.
Throughout the session I felt slightly nervous still (as most subs should when serving a true Domme), happy (as one would be serving an amazing Domme such as Mistress Lola), but mainly obedient and willing to serve to please Her. That’s what it’s about at the end of the day, pleasing the Mistress.
Mistress Lola is naturally beautiful with those piercing drawing eyes. Though Her evil mischievous smile that coaxed me into Her web as she laughed away edging me for the duration of the session, that is a memory I won’t forget and don’t want to forget.
After just one session, I can’t recommend Mistress Lola enough.
For any sub experienced or not, definitely get yourself booked in to serve Her, you won’t regret it!
I’ll be back to session with her. The sooner the better.
Thanks again Mistress Lola
Submitted February 2019
Dear Mistress Lola Ruin
Two weeks after 27 hours in Your "keeping" I'm still looking for words to describe my feelings and impressions.
I'm so thankful that it was possible for You to fix our arrangement with nearly four month lead time because I need this time to organize my flight from Germany and the off time at my work
And also after this time to prepare myself for our meeting I was so unbelievable excited and nervous as You opened Your door.
You was so kind but also keeping always the shape in accordance to Your dominant aura.
The combination of the different styles of "Extended Experiences" that followed from now on seems also in the retrospective perfect.
Without sharing to many (personal) details I can say that it were completely different challenges on the first an the second day.
The first day as Your toilet slave it was for me primarily a mentional challenge. That means not, that it was not also physically challenging to drink Your divine champagne every 30 minutes or so and that for hours. But for me it was the hardest to accept to lie there, wet from the parts that I can't swallow, to accept that I began to smell, to become really a toilet for You. And also for second Lady, that invited to use Your personal toilet slave.
The second part as Your servitude slave was a perfect "come down". I enjoyed it so much so to be allowed to massages Your feet. And I will not forget, that You like it more softly...
The night - without words, caged beneath You was one of the best nights in my life...
And finally: hours and hours of orgasm control... 30 times of edging, without permission to come and to have the discipline to give You a sign to stop. And between that the Venus milking machine always still working in a slow mode, without a break. That was such an physically experience. I couldn't imagine before that something like this is possible... You brought me to the highest points of erection and frustration...!
After lhe last visit from You and before my "release" into the reality it was so good to have the time to come down again, to speak with You. And a especially "Thank You" for the coffee, it was perfect in this moment to hold a cup in my hands, so You didn't see my trembling, a sign of excitement an to be near to You.
What You give me in the 27 hours before was really a "Extended Experience" that I will never forget in my life.
Thank You for that, Mistress Lola Ruin!
Submitted February 2019
I was privileged enough to be granted an opportunity to serve Mistress Lola Ruin during her recent trip to London. To say the session was good would be an understatement - it was as if Mistress Lola knew me (and my limits) better than myself, and took me on an experience that surpassed my own imaginations.
All the obvious superlatives about MLR are undoubtedly true - She was mesmerisingly beautiful and a complete professional. But for me, the thing that set Her apart was her intellect and the ability to get into your mind. I was lucky to have my first ruined orgasm experience with MLR. Not knowing what to expect, MLR was gentle and cruel at the same time, guiding me patiently throughout. MLR has this amazing ability to somehow keep the tension high throughout the entire time I was there; and instead of the usual “peak and trough” of a plain vanilla orgasm, MLR seemed to be able to build on each ruined orgasm to make the next even more intense, satisfying and frustrating at the same time.
The only negative I could find from the experience was that MLR is based in Manchester - and I would have to wait frustratingly for Her next visit to London!
Submitted January 2019
Submitted January 2019
This was my third ever visit to dominatrix , lets just say i was unprepared for Lola. I arrived it was just like before but subtly different in small ways i can only realize now.
You sit lower, Lola just looks at you for a while in that quiet appraising manner and then we chatted , she had obviously memorized our emails and a twitter exchange, this was detail, it was unexpected.
As we chatted she just made me feel good about letting her know what i dreamt of, what i liked , what i loved, what i feared (but desired) she put me at ease.. She left me alone to ponder my thoughts (and remove my clothes) .
It felt like forever but when she came back in it was the same person but the control had shifted away and i was prey to those secrets i had just revealed. She used them and that elegance and sheer beauty to help me control my
reactions , i had asked for choices. She overwhelmed me i chose badly i chose even worse, she laughed i chose without thinking. I was in "that space" she used this to get more and more from me, and im certain she won't forget those reveals, its that attention to the finite detail that literally blew me away. Her long (beautiful hair) just lightly touches you as she moves around you, her fingernails just clip you occasionally ans she tormented me . I left fulfilled but knowing for certain id be back for much more.
Submitted January 2019
Last week I was lucky enough to have my first (amazing) session with Mistress Lola Ruin. I was very nervous but, from the first contact through Her website, Mistress put me at ease and the arrangements were perfect.
When the day and time finally arrived, I knocked on Her door and was greeted by the beautiful Mistress. I had taken some red and white roses which i hoped She liked.
Mistress spent a few minutes calming my nerves and exploring my thoughts about the session. I crossdress from time to time, and taken some of my own clothes, and forced fem was central to the session, with humiliation, restraint, pics and whatever Mistress felt appropriate!
I was then left for a few minutes to strip and kneel in readiness.......
When Mistress returned, i got a glimpse of Her amazing legs and latex before being ordered to stare at the floor. As She sat on the leather bench I was ordered to lick Her lovely black leather high heels and then kiss and worship Her wonderful legs. I got carried away at one point and was told to wipe up my spit....
I needed to look more girly and slutty and Mistress forced me into a girly outfit; black tights with suspenders, black panties, a padded bra (which was tightened up really tightly so I would feel what is was really like to be a girl), girly jewellery and strappy high heels. Then, make up, with the honour of Mistress's own lovely red lipstick, foundation and mascara. Then topped off with a long blond and pink curly wig. Mistress took some photos as I got to look at my reflection in the mirror - girly, with loads of thick red lipstick "perfect for sucking cock"....!
Mistress than made me pose, and dance for Her, which She streamed live, humiliating me with the comments She got. I felt so humiliated but so excited! Mistress then pointed out Her brand new "f-machine" ( I'm sure anyone can guess what the 'f' stands for....). I was strapped face-down onto a kneeling bench and then couldn't see but could only hear as the machine was set uo behind me. Mistress teased me with what would come next....
I felt something nudging against my "pussy", which was unlike anything I've felt before....but so frustrating! I couldn't help but push back.... It then moved forwards and pushed into me - girly, degrading and incredible all at the same time. Mistress tooks some pictures and filmed it happening, which made it even more exciting. Mistress then turned the speed up so i was being fucked hard and fast, and then varied it up and down so i didn't know what was coming next.
The next thing i saw, as Mistress moved round in front of me, was her big red strapon! I was ordered to open my mouth wide and suck it. I had my mouth and pussy filled at the same time! Mistress asked me which i preferred, but i had to say both!
Then, on trembling legs, i was ordered across to be restrained, face up, on a leather bench. Teased by a vibrator, i was teased further with Mistress dangling her strapon just out of reach over my face, making me squirm and reach up to take it in my mouth. As She then filled my mouth with the strapon, She wiped it over my face, to smear the lipstick all over!
It was an amazing end to an amazing session, and i needed the shower to calm down and relax! So much done, but no doubt so much more for next time, if Mistress will spare me some more of her precious time. I promised to get some more, sluttier clothes for next time. I can't wait to see the pics and clips, and i can't wait for next time.
Submitted January 2019
First off I feel as a First Timer I should share why I chose to apply to Mistress Lola.
I've been exploring my sexuality for years and have fantasised seeing a Dom to try out the more physical side of my Kinks with someone but have always pushed it off because I couldn't find someone I wanted to session with nearby. When I saw a retweet of Mistress Lola I was immediately taken in by her beauty and began looking at more, I watched a short Christmas Message from her where I witnessed her sensual, caring, and real side which deeply resonated with me. Briefly reading her site I found myself not only fantasising about sessioning with her, also doing something I've pushed off so many times, filling out an application to have a chance at such an experience.
Application accepted and a very long journey later I was at the doorstep of Mistress' very discrete Chambers(I walked straight past it at first), once very politely greeted and invited in I was directed to the playroom and offered a drink. Even before starting O/our session Mistress sat herself in position where she was talking downward to me, already asserting her dominant role as W/we discussed what we were going to explore/which kinks I wanted involved but mostly I gave her free reign over the session, how we would play safe and that I was comfortable. I was then left alone instructed to strip and be waiting on my knees for when Mistress would next grace me with her presence. As I knelt in front of the door I could hear Mistress' footsteps in the next room, excited for when they would come towards me, as the door opened I gazed upon the stunning Latex outfit she was donning only to be told "Eyes to the floor!" quickly correcting myself. This was the start of getting me into a submissive state of mind. To further get me into the right mindset Mistress had me worship her amazingly soft legs, I was allowed to rub moisturiser up and down every inch of them, feeling the fullness of her thighs down to those cute little feet. Whilst worshipping Mistress' legs I was asked questions which lead to asking whether when I dressed up was I more slutty or a girly sissy at which point I was ordered to my knees, nose to the ground and left alone once more. Mistress returned with some clothes for me to wear, told me to stand and had me step into a thong, she pulled it up my legs and tucked away my clitty behind a cute bow. Then she pulled a tight little piece of lingerie over my head and tightened it up which made me feel very slutty indeed as it had a short short frilly skirt, just short enough to show my thong, then finishing off the outfit with some pink fishnet stockings securing them with a garter belt. It was only now when Mistress was completing her work with a wig that I was granted permission to look at her. I was met by a beautiful smile gazing at me very happy with my sissification so far and then cracking a slight laugh at my expense. One last thing was needed, a pair of heels. I slipped them on and was instructed to come look at myself in the mirror and display just how much I liked what I was wearing by doing some poses and then play with my clitty whilst looking at my sissy self. Mistress pulled out her wand vibrator and applied it to my clitty, the sensations from this were intense as she moved it around pressing it harder against me then lifting away and pressing in again and again. She would lean in, her head against mine, whispering into my ear then into the other as she teased me requesting me to moan for her like the slut I was. Suddenly she stopped and pulled away the wand leaving me frustrated. I was now guided over to Mistress' spanking bench where I needed to receive some punishment for an earlier mistake, strapped down and reminded of the rules of safe play, Mistress caressed my cheeks before very swiftly switching to hard spanks. As she worked up the heat in my bottom new tools were used in place of her hand to be struck across my backside leading up to the cane. By the end of all the strokes with different tools I was tremoring in pain which Mistress seemed pleased with and allowed me to get up from the bench in my own time. As I got to my feet I briefly forgot I was wearing heels and stumbled over to Mistress, where she pointed to another bench that she would have me lay down on and strap me down tightly once more so I couldn't move. This is where she would use her Venus 2000, ranging through all the speeds of the device sending my whole body into a convulsion of pleasure, toes curling, my hips thrusting, biting down on my lip clutching the sides of the bench. I could see her smiling in-between those soft thighs looking down at me as she braced my head with her calves, I rubbed my face against them as they moved away to place her feet upon my chest, Mistress slowly lowered herself down towards my face almost touching before raising back up. Another time just grazing my noes, I was teased by her lowering and raising a couple times before she fully sat down and shook my head side to side with the softest plump cheeks, then lifting away re-positioning herself above.
It took me years to find the right Mistress to go and take part in a session with and no longer being just a fantasy, Mistress Lola was the perfect choice. Shes very beautiful, sensual, and calming I could feel how much she enjoyed the session as did I. The Chambers is well equipped and has many many tools to be used on willing subs for their fantasies, which Mistress will surely put her own twist on during the session. This was a great First experience and hopefully the first of many.
Submitted September 2018
My first session with Mistress Lola Ruin was incredible (and I say that having sessioned with literally dozens of different Mistresses over the 20 years that I’ve been playing). If you’re reading this, then you must already know how beautiful Mistress Lola is: she is extraordinarily beautiful in the flesh. Everything about Mistress Lola pushed my buttons: her amazing voice, the way she moves, the powerful aura of Dominance that seems to surround her, and her exceptional role-playing skills...I could go on. It was obvious that Mistress Lola had put a great deal of thought into the session: she had listened to all of my requests and suggestions, but added her own unique twists which made the session the best I have ever had. From the moment Mistress Lola entered the room, to the moment the session finished, i was happily lost deep in my submissive sissy fantasies. Mistress Lola is a consummate professional who clearly loves her work and is a genuine expert in her field. The session was incredible, and I can’t wait for the next one. I can’t recommend Mistress Lola highly enough: book now!
Submitted August 2018
Submitted August 2018
I became aware of Mistress on Twitter. Her excellent web site had some very insightful blogs and I identified with her philosophy on BDSM. The emphasis was on exchange of power and her areas of interest matched what I wanted to experience. I requested a session and was delighted when she accepted. I have been aware of my kinky side from an early age but had not experienced anything more than mild play. I was therefore unsure how I would handle visiting the chambers of a professional dominatrix.
There was nothing at all intimidating as I made my way to our meeting. I found the chambers to be discretely located with a very private entrance. Upon entering I was quickly introduced to Mistress. She is a petite beautiful lady, friendly and obviously well educated. I was invited to sit down, and Mistress asked me to discuss I wanted from the session. It was very relaxed and she took a genuine interest in my fantasies and fetish needs. I realised that I had already taken a small step to submission as I was seated below Mistress looking up at her. She already had an aura of control and domination. Mistress guided me on the rules of how to play safely and consensually. My doubts about crossing into the fetish world quickly disappeared.
I was instructed to remove my clothing and kneel in preparation for Mistress entering the room. This order for obedience was itself arousing. It ticked the exchange of power box that I craved. As Mistress entered she walked behind me, her heels tapping on the hard floor. I momentarily raised my head to see a glimpse of her beautiful stocking clad legs at which time I was chastised and ordered to direct my gaze to the floor. I quickly obeyed and was rewarded with an instruction to kiss each of her feet. I was then ordered to worship each stocking clad foot as Mistress sat and directed me. This was my first chance to see all of Mistress in her tight latex outfit and she looked beyond perfection.
Mistress then proceeded to break me in like her new toy. She teased and controlled me demanding my obedience and respect. I was punished sadistically and sensually as Mistress probed my limits. Her eyes sparkled as she applied her toys expertly edging me. As the session progressed Mistress calmly asserted her ownership of me and I gladly submitted. I was ordered to her bench. I was restrained and lube applied. Pain was accompanied by reward as she administered an expert milking. As a toy was inserted, I embraced the pain and pressed myself back, onto it. Mistress was pleased and declared me to be her slut. I was then ordered to come. It took a few seconds for my brain to understand that I had been given permission. Mistress milked me vigorously and I released on to the hard stone floor. My balls were drained of every last drop.
The session was more than I hoped for. It was a cathartic experience which was the realisation of a long suppressed fantasy. Mistress is a fantastic dominatrix. Her body is strong, flexible and athletic which she uses to full effect in her sessions. It was a very intense experience where Mistress asserted complete control. All that happens is fully consensual, and Mistress ensures this by employing simple but effective verbal codes. I hardly needed to use this as Mistress is very intuitive and reads your reactions as the session progresses. Visually she is simply stunning and her outfits accentuate her dominant beauty.
I have now had two sessions and eagerly await a third!
Submitted August 2018
I've so far been blessed with everything I could reasonably ask for in life, but since my teens I've craved something more than the vanilla. I've always been "kinky" and travelled to see Mistress Lola Ruin with a desire to find new experiences, push boundaries and explore a more submissive side, which I've long suspected was there.
With some apprehension I arrived at Mistress Lola's discrete chambers where She greeted me warmly at the door and showed me inside. My first impressions? I thought She was beautiful. I adore petite Women and Mistress Lola is stunning. She also exudes a classy sensuality that is mesmerising and disarming in equal measure. I'm usually confident, but in those first minutes, with Her almond eyes piercing mine, I unravelled and clumsily sat where She would sit, rather than the lower bench below. Mistress promptly corrected my error and flashed a beguiling smile which engaged me instantly. Within seconds She had eased my nerves and asserted Her dominance. It's fair to say that I warmed to her from the start and knew that I would ask to see Her again.
So, two sessions into my journey and W/we've only begun to scratch the surface. Mistress instills in me complete trust, as she patiently initiates me into Her world. I've been teased, edged, sounded and frustrated. A mixture of new experiences and some I've enjoyed or experimented with before. But they're so much better with Her in control. At Her hand I've felt deference and pleasure, but also something unexpected. A sweet inner sigh of acceptance, that my mind and body belong to my Mistress. In O/our recent session Mistress introduced me to latex and worship and did so in such a way that I experienced something so overpowering and frustrating it left me speechless, on my hands and knees. I've never felt such intense desire. She fascinates and impassions me. My respect for Her is absolute and the trust She instils makes it easy to submit my body and mind for Her pleasure without a thought.
I realised, quite quickly, that I'm extremely fortunate to be allowed to spend time with Mistress Lola. O/our interests seem to align and although I know Her experience vastly outstrips mine, I'm very happy to have taken my first steps with Her. I'm Her blank canvas and such is my desire to please Her that I will be shaped into whatever She desires me to become.
I enjoy existing solely for Her entertainment and pleasure, which is quite a turnaround from my mindset of just a few months ago. Usually quite assertive, I can let go and serve and that's proving to be a beautiful thing to do. The plan W/we have for O/our next session is in my mind the next logical step on the journey. She will take from me something no one will be able to take again. I'm excited and apprehensive, but I already know I will never look back. She has changed me already.
Submitted August 2018
For 5 years, I have served and worshipped Mistress Lola. During this time, she has become so important to me and helped me so much. She is so beautiful and the perfect Mistress. She knows exactly what I want, need and deserve. If I listed my top ten experiences in life, they would all feature Mistress Lola. Thank you. xxx
Submitted July 2018
Submitted April 2018
I had followed Mistress Lola Ruin on Twitter for a while, and had frequently visited her website. I greatly admired her natural beauty and athletic physique, something that could be seen clearly in the photos. I finally plucked up the courage to take my pursuits one step further, and arranged a real life session. I organised a meeting at her chambers, which are discretely situated in south east Manchester. On arrival, I was greeted by a extremely beautiful and articulate young lady, dressed in smart casual clothes. This lady, was indeed out of role Mistress Lola. She took me up to one of the many varied play rooms at the establishment.
Mistress Lola began explaining the basics of the sessions, and asked if I had any particular activities in mind. This informal and relaxing chat was accompanied by the offer of a drink. On this occasion I asked for some water, whereupon she left the room briefly, only to return with a glass of refreshingly cool water. Once the pre-session conversation had finished, she instructed me to undress, and prepare for the beginning of our session. When she left the room, I began wondering what was in store for me, a complete novice in this area. However, I felt reassured, as we had talked about this before she had left the room.
I knelt on the floor anticipating her entrance. Suddenly, I heard the tapping of heels coming down the corridor adjacent to the playroom. Gradually, the noise got louder, then stopped just outside the playroom door. By now my heart was thumping hard inside my chest with excited anticipation. When the door slowly opened, the pleasant state of shock on my face must have been a picture. In front of my completely naked and vulnerable body, was a vision one could only dream about. Mistress Lola stood there in a tight, figure hugging black latex body, with black tights and shiny knee length leather boots.
She was unrecognisable from the young lady who had left the room moments earlier, for now I was at the feet of a Goddess. During the next hour and a half I was completely at her mercy, and yet felt strangely relaxed. Yes, I experienced moments of pain, but they were accompanied by heightened moments of pleasure. Mistress Lola was in total control of both my body and mind. I was teased whilst in tight bondage, while she smothered my face with her perfectly formed bottom. I writhed helplessly, against the leather cuffs, as she introduced me to the pleasures of the strapon entering my person.
The session ended with an exercise in self control as my manhood was brought to the edge of climax, only to be denied several times by this sensually cruel mistress. Once it had been mutually agreed that our play session was over, Mistress Lola disappeared out of the room. The young lady that returned was the one who had let me in hours before. However, I did recognise the eyes of a Goddess in her gaze. We discussed the previous session at length, and Mistress Lola was particularly keen to warn me of the ‘sub drop’ that might occur as a result of our session. This client centred attention was yet another feature of Mistress Lola that I found reassuring. Not only is Mistress Lola a truly beautiful and highly skilled professional, but she genuinely cares about the welfare of her clients.
Mistress Lola is rapidly becoming known as a leading and high profile Dominatrix, not only in Manchester where she is based but further afield, thanks to visits to London and even occasional forays to North Wales. Naturally dominant and a true fetishist, Mistress Lola has formidable gifts to bring to her vocation as a Dominatrix. Intellect, (University educated ) allied with a fertile and deliciously kinky imagination in combination with an intuitive and fundamentally caring approach result in a fusion yield of perverted play in the megaton range. Her warmth, approach-ability and empathy make it easy for anyone, no matter how uncertain and timorous to confide their most secret, shameful and deeply suppressed needs and - I speak from experience, - when Mistress Lola smiles her special wicked smile, rest assured, those secret needs will be turned into a wild rollercoaster ride of incandescent and intense reality.
It's obvious that Mistress Lola truly loves her work, whether your preference is for simple and traditional "restraint and flagellation" style BDSM or, you hanker for complex psychological "power exchange" scenes or elaborate role plays, you can be certain your needs will be more than satisfied and your expectations exceeded...
Mistress Lola is a true goddess and delightfully evil. She looks so sweet and innocent but dare to look into Her enchanting eyes and you will be forever under Her spell. She looks straight into your soul and knows instantly what you need, despite what you might think you want! This really is a true talent and not one that many other Mistresses posses (with the exception of her partner in punishment Miss Foxx who was kind enough to briefly join my session to dish out the further punishment that I deserved). I had been searching for a Mistress that I could visit regularly and know that I have found that with Mistress Lola.
I asked for a good old spanking and CP session and that's what I got and also more - what I needed without even knowing it. She turned my ass crimson with ease before binding me tightly and giving me a cock whipping - each flinch of mine punished by a harder stroke. Some incredible Face Slapping followed before our session ended well over time and with me on a natural high that I have not experienced before. I could feel the sting for days and each time I did I was right back in Mistress's lair awaiting the next stroke...
Mistress Lola is an expert in getting into the mental psyche of Her slaves and creates the most absolutely extraordinary role-play scenarios. Mistress Lola is exceptionally beautiful, tremendously intelligent and marvellously inventive and continually thinks of new ideas and activities to explore during sessions, Mistress Lola is a truly World Class dominatrix! The time since my first session honestly has been the happiest and most joyful period of my life I just can’t stop smiling. My slave training has been thorough and immensely enjoyable, I have learnt so very much, Mistress Lola continuously continues to stretch my limits and boundaries and has vastly developed me to new levels like no Mistress has ever done before.
Mistress Lola has nurtured and helped me to find my inner slave, I feel like I have finally found myself, found peace, found happiness and found my purpose and for this I honestly am eternally grateful. I know that I have found someone so incredibly special the perfect Mistress in every way possible, Mistress Lola is a wonderful person, an absolute joy and so much fun to serve. Mistress Lola totally loves what She does, this shines through and is clearly evident in every single session. You will immediately come realise all of the above if you are ever lucky enough to serve this absolutely divine Goddess, even by just talking to Mistress you will instantly realise just how very special She is.
I have long been trying to bring a fantasy of mine to life. For many reasons, it was very difficult to find the right Mistress to help me with this. Lack of interest, trust issues, reliability, you name it. But I am now delighted to say that after contacting Mistress Lola, this has become reality…and better than I could ever imagine. I always wanted to appear in my own little fetish-themed movie, a fantasy script brought to life. As I am a very private person, I had no desire to make this available for the public, but wanted it to get done for my own personal use only. Well, as Mistress Lola states on her website, she now offers this kind of service and it is indeed exactly what I was looking for.
Mistress Lola already has a lot of experience, doing custom clips on request for many of her clients - you can get a glimpse of that on her clips4sale store - and now she gives you the chance to produce your very own video, based on your ideas, in which she will appear with you. Not only has she a deep understanding of every fetish / BDSM themed scenario you can think of, she also has the technical know-how to get the best results regarding camera angles and lighting and she is great at editing the footage, creating a coherent storyline, exactly as per your ideas. She also is very helpful, bringing in her own ideas and suggestions, that without a doubt will improve the final result.
Above all, what made this a hugely rewarding experience is that Mistress Lola seemed to enjoy this every bit as much as I did. It was great fun for both of us and despite being a little different from your usual sessions - due to the camerawork and revisiting the scenarios - it was always light-hearted and although we never strayed far from the actual script, there was always time for a few laughs and good conversation along the way.
While Mistress Lola is exceptionally beautiful in real life, it has to be said that she looks absolutely stunning on camera, you just can't take your eyes off her, almost makes you forget that you are in the video, too… Last, but by no means least, you can be 100 % assured, that if you wish, this video will only be between you and her, for nobody else to see. You will have a very personal souvenir of a great experience, that still makes you want to come back for further sessions with Mistress Lola.
I met with Mistress Lola looking to experience a roleplay session for the first time and to be taken completely out of my comfort zone which is something that she most certainly did! Mistress really made the roleplay her own and added plenty of twists to keep me on my toes, gradually manipulating me until I was feminised, bound at her feet and completely at her mercy. During the session I was subjected to plenty of pain and really had my limits pushed however Mistress, while remaining firmly in control, always made sure I was ok. Eventually I was allowed to be smothered by Mistresses perfect, latex clad body in what really was an incredible end to the session.
In conclusion the session was everything I asked for and more. Mistress took my brief roleplay outline and gave it all her own unique twist. I feel privileged to have been able to serve Mistress Lola and to have been able to share such a fantastic experience with her.