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Submitted February 2019
I was privileged enough to be granted an opportunity to serve Mistress Lola Ruin during her recent trip to London. To say the session was good would be an understatement - it was as if Mistress Lola knew me (and my limits) better than myself, and took me on an experience that surpassed my own imaginations.
All the obvious superlatives about MLR are undoubtedly true - She was mesmerisingly beautiful and a complete professional. But for me, the thing that set Her apart was her intellect and the ability to get into your mind. I was lucky to have my first ruined orgasm experience with MLR. Not knowing what to expect, MLR was gentle and cruel at the same time, guiding me patiently throughout. MLR has this amazing ability to somehow keep the tension high throughout the entire time I was there; and instead of the usual “peak and trough” of a plain vanilla orgasm, MLR seemed to be able to build on each ruined orgasm to make the next even more intense, satisfying and frustrating at the same time.
The only negative I could find from the experience was that MLR is based in Manchester - and I would have to wait frustratingly for Her next visit to London!
Submitted January 2019
Submitted January 2019
This was my third ever visit to dominatrix , lets just say i was unprepared for Lola. I arrived it was just like before but subtly different in small ways i can only realize now.
You sit lower, Lola just looks at you for a while in that quiet appraising manner and then we chatted , she had obviously memorized our emails and a twitter exchange, this was detail, it was unexpected.
As we chatted she just made me feel good about letting her know what i dreamt of, what i liked , what i loved, what i feared (but desired) she put me at ease.. She left me alone to ponder my thoughts (and remove my clothes) .
It felt like forever but when she came back in it was the same person but the control had shifted away and i was prey to those secrets i had just revealed. She used them and that elegance and sheer beauty to help me control my
reactions , i had asked for choices. She overwhelmed me i chose badly i chose even worse, she laughed i chose without thinking. I was in "that space" she used this to get more and more from me, and im certain she won't forget those reveals, its that attention to the finite detail that literally blew me away. Her long (beautiful hair) just lightly touches you as she moves around you, her fingernails just clip you occasionally ans she tormented me . I left fulfilled but knowing for certain id be back for much more.
Submitted January 2019
Last week I was lucky enough to have my first (amazing) session with Mistress Lola Ruin. I was very nervous but, from the first contact through Her website, Mistress put me at ease and the arrangements were perfect.
When the day and time finally arrived, I knocked on Her door and was greeted by the beautiful Mistress. I had taken some red and white roses which i hoped She liked.
Mistress spent a few minutes calming my nerves and exploring my thoughts about the session. I crossdress from time to time, and taken some of my own clothes, and forced fem was central to the session, with humiliation, restraint, pics and whatever Mistress felt appropriate!
I was then left for a few minutes to strip and kneel in readiness.......
When Mistress returned, i got a glimpse of Her amazing legs and latex before being ordered to stare at the floor. As She sat on the leather bench I was ordered to lick Her lovely black leather high heels and then kiss and worship Her wonderful legs. I got carried away at one point and was told to wipe up my spit....
I needed to look more girly and slutty and Mistress forced me into a girly outfit; black tights with suspenders, black panties, a padded bra (which was tightened up really tightly so I would feel what is was really like to be a girl), girly jewellery and strappy high heels. Then, make up, with the honour of Mistress's own lovely red lipstick, foundation and mascara. Then topped off with a long blond and pink curly wig. Mistress took some photos as I got to look at my reflection in the mirror - girly, with loads of thick red lipstick "perfect for sucking cock"....!
Mistress than made me pose, and dance for Her, which She streamed live, humiliating me with the comments She got. I felt so humiliated but so excited! Mistress then pointed out Her brand new "f-machine" ( I'm sure anyone can guess what the 'f' stands for....). I was strapped face-down onto a kneeling bench and then couldn't see but could only hear as the machine was set uo behind me. Mistress teased me with what would come next....
I felt something nudging against my "pussy", which was unlike anything I've felt before....but so frustrating! I couldn't help but push back.... It then moved forwards and pushed into me - girly, degrading and incredible all at the same time. Mistress tooks some pictures and filmed it happening, which made it even more exciting. Mistress then turned the speed up so i was being fucked hard and fast, and then varied it up and down so i didn't know what was coming next.
The next thing i saw, as Mistress moved round in front of me, was her big red strapon! I was ordered to open my mouth wide and suck it. I had my mouth and pussy filled at the same time! Mistress asked me which i preferred, but i had to say both!
Then, on trembling legs, i was ordered across to be restrained, face up, on a leather bench. Teased by a vibrator, i was teased further with Mistress dangling her strapon just out of reach over my face, making me squirm and reach up to take it in my mouth. As She then filled my mouth with the strapon, She wiped it over my face, to smear the lipstick all over!
It was an amazing end to an amazing session, and i needed the shower to calm down and relax! So much done, but no doubt so much more for next time, if Mistress will spare me some more of her precious time. I promised to get some more, sluttier clothes for next time. I can't wait to see the pics and clips, and i can't wait for next time.
Submitted January 2019
First off I feel as a First Timer I should share why I chose to apply to Mistress Lola.
I've been exploring my sexuality for years and have fantasised seeing a Dom to try out the more physical side of my Kinks with someone but have always pushed it off because I couldn't find someone I wanted to session with nearby. When I saw a retweet of Mistress Lola I was immediately taken in by her beauty and began looking at more, I watched a short Christmas Message from her where I witnessed her sensual, caring, and real side which deeply resonated with me. Briefly reading her site I found myself not only fantasising about sessioning with her, also doing something I've pushed off so many times, filling out an application to have a chance at such an experience.
Application accepted and a very long journey later I was at the doorstep of Mistress' very discrete Chambers(I walked straight past it at first), once very politely greeted and invited in I was directed to the playroom and offered a drink. Even before starting O/our session Mistress sat herself in position where she was talking downward to me, already asserting her dominant role as W/we discussed what we were going to explore/which kinks I wanted involved but mostly I gave her free reign over the session, how we would play safe and that I was comfortable. I was then left alone instructed to strip and be waiting on my knees for when Mistress would next grace me with her presence. As I knelt in front of the door I could hear Mistress' footsteps in the next room, excited for when they would come towards me, as the door opened I gazed upon the stunning Latex outfit she was donning only to be told "Eyes to the floor!" quickly correcting myself. This was the start of getting me into a submissive state of mind. To further get me into the right mindset Mistress had me worship her amazingly soft legs, I was allowed to rub moisturiser up and down every inch of them, feeling the fullness of her thighs down to those cute little feet. Whilst worshipping Mistress' legs I was asked questions which lead to asking whether when I dressed up was I more slutty or a girly sissy at which point I was ordered to my knees, nose to the ground and left alone once more. Mistress returned with some clothes for me to wear, told me to stand and had me step into a thong, she pulled it up my legs and tucked away my clitty behind a cute bow. Then she pulled a tight little piece of lingerie over my head and tightened it up which made me feel very slutty indeed as it had a short short frilly skirt, just short enough to show my thong, then finishing off the outfit with some pink fishnet stockings securing them with a garter belt. It was only now when Mistress was completing her work with a wig that I was granted permission to look at her. I was met by a beautiful smile gazing at me very happy with my sissification so far and then cracking a slight laugh at my expense. One last thing was needed, a pair of heels. I slipped them on and was instructed to come look at myself in the mirror and display just how much I liked what I was wearing by doing some poses and then play with my clitty whilst looking at my sissy self. Mistress pulled out her wand vibrator and applied it to my clitty, the sensations from this were intense as she moved it around pressing it harder against me then lifting away and pressing in again and again. She would lean in, her head against mine, whispering into my ear then into the other as she teased me requesting me to moan for her like the slut I was. Suddenly she stopped and pulled away the wand leaving me frustrated. I was now guided over to Mistress' spanking bench where I needed to receive some punishment for an earlier mistake, strapped down and reminded of the rules of safe play, Mistress caressed my cheeks before very swiftly switching to hard spanks. As she worked up the heat in my bottom new tools were used in place of her hand to be struck across my backside leading up to the cane. By the end of all the strokes with different tools I was tremoring in pain which Mistress seemed pleased with and allowed me to get up from the bench in my own time. As I got to my feet I briefly forgot I was wearing heels and stumbled over to Mistress, where she pointed to another bench that she would have me lay down on and strap me down tightly once more so I couldn't move. This is where she would use her Venus 2000, ranging through all the speeds of the device sending my whole body into a convulsion of pleasure, toes curling, my hips thrusting, biting down on my lip clutching the sides of the bench. I could see her smiling in-between those soft thighs looking down at me as she braced my head with her calves, I rubbed my face against them as they moved away to place her feet upon my chest, Mistress slowly lowered herself down towards my face almost touching before raising back up. Another time just grazing my noes, I was teased by her lowering and raising a couple times before she fully sat down and shook my head side to side with the softest plump cheeks, then lifting away re-positioning herself above.
It took me years to find the right Mistress to go and take part in a session with and no longer being just a fantasy, Mistress Lola was the perfect choice. Shes very beautiful, sensual, and calming I could feel how much she enjoyed the session as did I. The Chambers is well equipped and has many many tools to be used on willing subs for their fantasies, which Mistress will surely put her own twist on during the session. This was a great First experience and hopefully the first of many.
Submitted September 2018
My first session with Mistress Lola Ruin was incredible (and I say that having sessioned with literally dozens of different Mistresses over the 20 years that I’ve been playing). If you’re reading this, then you must already know how beautiful Mistress Lola is: she is extraordinarily beautiful in the flesh. Everything about Mistress Lola pushed my buttons: her amazing voice, the way she moves, the powerful aura of Dominance that seems to surround her, and her exceptional role-playing skills...I could go on. It was obvious that Mistress Lola had put a great deal of thought into the session: she had listened to all of my requests and suggestions, but added her own unique twists which made the session the best I have ever had. From the moment Mistress Lola entered the room, to the moment the session finished, i was happily lost deep in my submissive sissy fantasies. Mistress Lola is a consummate professional who clearly loves her work and is a genuine expert in her field. The session was incredible, and I can’t wait for the next one. I can’t recommend Mistress Lola highly enough: book now!
Submitted August 2018
Submitted August 2018
I became aware of Mistress on Twitter. Her excellent web site had some very insightful blogs and I identified with her philosophy on BDSM. The emphasis was on exchange of power and her areas of interest matched what I wanted to experience. I requested a session and was delighted when she accepted. I have been aware of my kinky side from an early age but had not experienced anything more than mild play. I was therefore unsure how I would handle visiting the chambers of a professional dominatrix.
There was nothing at all intimidating as I made my way to our meeting. I found the chambers to be discretely located with a very private entrance. Upon entering I was quickly introduced to Mistress. She is a petite beautiful lady, friendly and obviously well educated. I was invited to sit down, and Mistress asked me to discuss I wanted from the session. It was very relaxed and she took a genuine interest in my fantasies and fetish needs. I realised that I had already taken a small step to submission as I was seated below Mistress looking up at her. She already had an aura of control and domination. Mistress guided me on the rules of how to play safely and consensually. My doubts about crossing into the fetish world quickly disappeared.
I was instructed to remove my clothing and kneel in preparation for Mistress entering the room. This order for obedience was itself arousing. It ticked the exchange of power box that I craved. As Mistress entered she walked behind me, her heels tapping on the hard floor. I momentarily raised my head to see a glimpse of her beautiful stocking clad legs at which time I was chastised and ordered to direct my gaze to the floor. I quickly obeyed and was rewarded with an instruction to kiss each of her feet. I was then ordered to worship each stocking clad foot as Mistress sat and directed me. This was my first chance to see all of Mistress in her tight latex outfit and she looked beyond perfection.
Mistress then proceeded to break me in like her new toy. She teased and controlled me demanding my obedience and respect. I was punished sadistically and sensually as Mistress probed my limits. Her eyes sparkled as she applied her toys expertly edging me. As the session progressed Mistress calmly asserted her ownership of me and I gladly submitted. I was ordered to her bench. I was restrained and lube applied. Pain was accompanied by reward as she administered an expert milking. As a toy was inserted, I embraced the pain and pressed myself back, onto it. Mistress was pleased and declared me to be her slut. I was then ordered to come. It took a few seconds for my brain to understand that I had been given permission. Mistress milked me vigorously and I released on to the hard stone floor. My balls were drained of every last drop.
The session was more than I hoped for. It was a cathartic experience which was the realisation of a long suppressed fantasy. Mistress is a fantastic dominatrix. Her body is strong, flexible and athletic which she uses to full effect in her sessions. It was a very intense experience where Mistress asserted complete control. All that happens is fully consensual, and Mistress ensures this by employing simple but effective verbal codes. I hardly needed to use this as Mistress is very intuitive and reads your reactions as the session progresses. Visually she is simply stunning and her outfits accentuate her dominant beauty.
I have now had two sessions and eagerly await a third!
Submitted August 2018
I've so far been blessed with everything I could reasonably ask for in life, but since my teens I've craved something more than the vanilla. I've always been "kinky" and travelled to see Mistress Lola Ruin with a desire to find new experiences, push boundaries and explore a more submissive side, which I've long suspected was there.
With some apprehension I arrived at Mistress Lola's discrete chambers where She greeted me warmly at the door and showed me inside. My first impressions? I thought She was beautiful. I adore petite Women and Mistress Lola is stunning. She also exudes a classy sensuality that is mesmerising and disarming in equal measure. I'm usually confident, but in those first minutes, with Her almond eyes piercing mine, I unravelled and clumsily sat where She would sit, rather than the lower bench below. Mistress promptly corrected my error and flashed a beguiling smile which engaged me instantly. Within seconds She had eased my nerves and asserted Her dominance. It's fair to say that I warmed to her from the start and knew that I would ask to see Her again.
So, two sessions into my journey and W/we've only begun to scratch the surface. Mistress instills in me complete trust, as she patiently initiates me into Her world. I've been teased, edged, sounded and frustrated. A mixture of new experiences and some I've enjoyed or experimented with before. But they're so much better with Her in control. At Her hand I've felt deference and pleasure, but also something unexpected. A sweet inner sigh of acceptance, that my mind and body belong to my Mistress. In O/our recent session Mistress introduced me to latex and worship and did so in such a way that I experienced something so overpowering and frustrating it left me speechless, on my hands and knees. I've never felt such intense desire. She fascinates and impassions me. My respect for Her is absolute and the trust She instils makes it easy to submit my body and mind for Her pleasure without a thought.
I realised, quite quickly, that I'm extremely fortunate to be allowed to spend time with Mistress Lola. O/our interests seem to align and although I know Her experience vastly outstrips mine, I'm very happy to have taken my first steps with Her. I'm Her blank canvas and such is my desire to please Her that I will be shaped into whatever She desires me to become.
I enjoy existing solely for Her entertainment and pleasure, which is quite a turnaround from my mindset of just a few months ago. Usually quite assertive, I can let go and serve and that's proving to be a beautiful thing to do. The plan W/we have for O/our next session is in my mind the next logical step on the journey. She will take from me something no one will be able to take again. I'm excited and apprehensive, but I already know I will never look back. She has changed me already.
Submitted August 2018
For 5 years, I have served and worshipped Mistress Lola. During this time, she has become so important to me and helped me so much. She is so beautiful and the perfect Mistress. She knows exactly what I want, need and deserve. If I listed my top ten experiences in life, they would all feature Mistress Lola. Thank you. xxx
Submitted July 2018
Submitted April 2018
I had followed Mistress Lola Ruin on Twitter for a while, and had frequently visited her website. I greatly admired her natural beauty and athletic physique, something that could be seen clearly in the photos. I finally plucked up the courage to take my pursuits one step further, and arranged a real life session. I organised a meeting at her chambers, which are discretely situated in south east Manchester. On arrival, I was greeted by a extremely beautiful and articulate young lady, dressed in smart casual clothes. This lady, was indeed out of role Mistress Lola. She took me up to one of the many varied play rooms at the establishment.
Mistress Lola began explaining the basics of the sessions, and asked if I had any particular activities in mind. This informal and relaxing chat was accompanied by the offer of a drink. On this occasion I asked for some water, whereupon she left the room briefly, only to return with a glass of refreshingly cool water. Once the pre-session conversation had finished, she instructed me to undress, and prepare for the beginning of our session. When she left the room, I began wondering what was in store for me, a complete novice in this area. However, I felt reassured, as we had talked about this before she had left the room.
I knelt on the floor anticipating her entrance. Suddenly, I heard the tapping of heels coming down the corridor adjacent to the playroom. Gradually, the noise got louder, then stopped just outside the playroom door. By now my heart was thumping hard inside my chest with excited anticipation. When the door slowly opened, the pleasant state of shock on my face must have been a picture. In front of my completely naked and vulnerable body, was a vision one could only dream about. Mistress Lola stood there in a tight, figure hugging black latex body, with black tights and shiny knee length leather boots.
She was unrecognisable from the young lady who had left the room moments earlier, for now I was at the feet of a Goddess. During the next hour and a half I was completely at her mercy, and yet felt strangely relaxed. Yes, I experienced moments of pain, but they were accompanied by heightened moments of pleasure. Mistress Lola was in total control of both my body and mind. I was teased whilst in tight bondage, while she smothered my face with her perfectly formed bottom. I writhed helplessly, against the leather cuffs, as she introduced me to the pleasures of the strapon entering my person.
The session ended with an exercise in self control as my manhood was brought to the edge of climax, only to be denied several times by this sensually cruel mistress. Once it had been mutually agreed that our play session was over, Mistress Lola disappeared out of the room. The young lady that returned was the one who had let me in hours before. However, I did recognise the eyes of a Goddess in her gaze. We discussed the previous session at length, and Mistress Lola was particularly keen to warn me of the ‘sub drop’ that might occur as a result of our session. This client centred attention was yet another feature of Mistress Lola that I found reassuring. Not only is Mistress Lola a truly beautiful and highly skilled professional, but she genuinely cares about the welfare of her clients.
Mistress Lola is rapidly becoming known as a leading and high profile Dominatrix, not only in Manchester where she is based but further afield, thanks to visits to London and even occasional forays to North Wales. Naturally dominant and a true fetishist, Mistress Lola has formidable gifts to bring to her vocation as a Dominatrix. Intellect, (University educated ) allied with a fertile and deliciously kinky imagination in combination with an intuitive and fundamentally caring approach result in a fusion yield of perverted play in the megaton range. Her warmth, approach-ability and empathy make it easy for anyone, no matter how uncertain and timorous to confide their most secret, shameful and deeply suppressed needs and - I speak from experience, - when Mistress Lola smiles her special wicked smile, rest assured, those secret needs will be turned into a wild rollercoaster ride of incandescent and intense reality.
It's obvious that Mistress Lola truly loves her work, whether your preference is for simple and traditional "restraint and flagellation" style BDSM or, you hanker for complex psychological "power exchange" scenes or elaborate role plays, you can be certain your needs will be more than satisfied and your expectations exceeded...
Mistress Lola is a true goddess and delightfully evil. She looks so sweet and innocent but dare to look into Her enchanting eyes and you will be forever under Her spell. She looks straight into your soul and knows instantly what you need, despite what you might think you want! This really is a true talent and not one that many other Mistresses posses (with the exception of her partner in punishment Miss Foxx who was kind enough to briefly join my session to dish out the further punishment that I deserved). I had been searching for a Mistress that I could visit regularly and know that I have found that with Mistress Lola.
I asked for a good old spanking and CP session and that's what I got and also more - what I needed without even knowing it. She turned my ass crimson with ease before binding me tightly and giving me a cock whipping - each flinch of mine punished by a harder stroke. Some incredible Face Slapping followed before our session ended well over time and with me on a natural high that I have not experienced before. I could feel the sting for days and each time I did I was right back in Mistress's lair awaiting the next stroke...
Mistress Lola is an expert in getting into the mental psyche of Her slaves and creates the most absolutely extraordinary role-play scenarios. Mistress Lola is exceptionally beautiful, tremendously intelligent and marvellously inventive and continually thinks of new ideas and activities to explore during sessions, Mistress Lola is a truly World Class dominatrix! The time since my first session honestly has been the happiest and most joyful period of my life I just can’t stop smiling. My slave training has been thorough and immensely enjoyable, I have learnt so very much, Mistress Lola continuously continues to stretch my limits and boundaries and has vastly developed me to new levels like no Mistress has ever done before.
Mistress Lola has nurtured and helped me to find my inner slave, I feel like I have finally found myself, found peace, found happiness and found my purpose and for this I honestly am eternally grateful. I know that I have found someone so incredibly special the perfect Mistress in every way possible, Mistress Lola is a wonderful person, an absolute joy and so much fun to serve. Mistress Lola totally loves what She does, this shines through and is clearly evident in every single session. You will immediately come realise all of the above if you are ever lucky enough to serve this absolutely divine Goddess, even by just talking to Mistress you will instantly realise just how very special She is.
I have long been trying to bring a fantasy of mine to life. For many reasons, it was very difficult to find the right Mistress to help me with this. Lack of interest, trust issues, reliability, you name it. But I am now delighted to say that after contacting Mistress Lola, this has become reality…and better than I could ever imagine. I always wanted to appear in my own little fetish-themed movie, a fantasy script brought to life. As I am a very private person, I had no desire to make this available for the public, but wanted it to get done for my own personal use only. Well, as Mistress Lola states on her website, she now offers this kind of service and it is indeed exactly what I was looking for.
Mistress Lola already has a lot of experience, doing custom clips on request for many of her clients - you can get a glimpse of that on her clips4sale store - and now she gives you the chance to produce your very own video, based on your ideas, in which she will appear with you. Not only has she a deep understanding of every fetish / BDSM themed scenario you can think of, she also has the technical know-how to get the best results regarding camera angles and lighting and she is great at editing the footage, creating a coherent storyline, exactly as per your ideas. She also is very helpful, bringing in her own ideas and suggestions, that without a doubt will improve the final result.
Above all, what made this a hugely rewarding experience is that Mistress Lola seemed to enjoy this every bit as much as I did. It was great fun for both of us and despite being a little different from your usual sessions - due to the camerawork and revisiting the scenarios - it was always light-hearted and although we never strayed far from the actual script, there was always time for a few laughs and good conversation along the way.
While Mistress Lola is exceptionally beautiful in real life, it has to be said that she looks absolutely stunning on camera, you just can't take your eyes off her, almost makes you forget that you are in the video, too… Last, but by no means least, you can be 100 % assured, that if you wish, this video will only be between you and her, for nobody else to see. You will have a very personal souvenir of a great experience, that still makes you want to come back for further sessions with Mistress Lola.
I met with Mistress Lola looking to experience a roleplay session for the first time and to be taken completely out of my comfort zone which is something that she most certainly did! Mistress really made the roleplay her own and added plenty of twists to keep me on my toes, gradually manipulating me until I was feminised, bound at her feet and completely at her mercy. During the session I was subjected to plenty of pain and really had my limits pushed however Mistress, while remaining firmly in control, always made sure I was ok. Eventually I was allowed to be smothered by Mistresses perfect, latex clad body in what really was an incredible end to the session.
In conclusion the session was everything I asked for and more. Mistress took my brief roleplay outline and gave it all her own unique twist. I feel privileged to have been able to serve Mistress Lola and to have been able to share such a fantastic experience with her.
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