Foot worship is probably the most common fetish. Especially so for Me, as it seems the foot fetishists particularly like tiny little size 2 feet.
Almost every slave who crawls through My dungeon door spends some of his time at My feet. Some will only give each one a small peck to each as a ‘Hello’, as My protocol dictates. Others may spend hours smothered underneath them.
Regardless, I believe that every serious slave learn how to properly worship the feet of his Dominant. It’s a skill which will serve you well in serving Me.
It’s no surprise so many people love to worship feet. Even less of a surprise that others love to receive foot worship. The ‘somatosenory cortex’ of the brain maps out your nerves, with a little section devoted to each body part, and their size relative to how sensitive that body part is. Sometimes, these sections overlap. Look at the right hand side of this image… Notice how in the image above, feet and genitals are right next to each other, overlapping? The science of kink!
I’ll let you in on a little secret which may encourage you to improve your ‘podolingus’… when a slave is good at worshipping feet, it generally bodes well for what else he may be good at worshipping.
I bet your mind has already wandered, thinking about what you can’t have. You can forget it… no amount of toe sucking will elevate you to the role of My sex slave. But now you know, isn’t that the thought you want running through My head? That as your tongue runs along My arch, I’m silently making a bet with Myself that you would be great at going down on women? Of course you do. And I promise you, I am not the only Domme who thinks that.
So, before I bestow upon you My top tips for foot worship, let’s delve into what you should steer clear of.
- No Teeth
I am rolling My eyes that I even have to say this, but it’s true. At no point, ever, do I want to feel your teeth on My feet. I don’t care if you manage to cram all 10 of My perfect little toes into your mouth… you better open that jaw wide. Think back to a time when a woman may have used her teeth on your dick. Unless you’re a CBT masochist you probably squirmed like crazy, because teeth feel awful. Same goes for My feet. Don’t. Do. It.
- No Slobber
Unlike blowjobs, copious amounts of saliva is not hot. I want you to worship respectfully, and that means not drenching Me in your slobber. Of course, a dry mouth is no fun, so you’re gonna have to use your brain to figure out the middle ground (good luck!).
- No Stubble
Make your face soft before burying it in My arches. Coarse stubble is at best tickly, at worst scratchy and always distracting.
Those are My own three biggest bugbears when it comes to sloppy foot worship. Now, onto how you can improve…
- Start gently
I drew the comparison between foot worship and pussy eating earlier for good reason… Most men know that diving straight into aggressive cunnilingus is not the best way to please a woman. You want to ease into it, and foot worship is no different. What do you imagine might feel best… someone who immediately crams My entire foot in his mouth, OR someone who traces every curve of them with kisses… then his tongue… then sucks on each of My toes…
See the difference?
Don’t let your mouth do all the work. I for one love when My slave also massages My feet whilst worshipping. Always be gentle. Never tug My feet towards you. Remember you are here to please Me, and utilising all you have to do that (including both your mouth and hands) is best!
- Worship Equally
Don’t let My other foot get jealous. You have one mouth, and two hands, and so there’s plenty to make sure each of My feet are kept happy. Switch between the two regularly. Plant kisses all over one foot, then repeat on the other. I like symmetry 🙂
- Pay attention to each of My toes
Usually slaves are good at this, however it bears repeating. Just as I have 2 feet, I also have 10 toes! Be sure to give every little piggy the attention it rightly deserves. Also, don’t neglect that space between them. I love to feel a willing slaves tongue exploring betwixt My toes.
- Follow My instructions
I am vocal about what I like. If I give you any guidance on how best to worship My feet, listen and act accordingly. Do not make Me repeat Myself.
Ask Me what I like, if it feels good, what might feel better. I like when My slaves are willing to learn. Also, whilst I believe some of this blog may be true for other Dommes (no teeth is a universal dislike I imagine), these are only My own personal preferences. Every Domme is different, and you would do well to remember that. Always ask what feels best and what they like. Different strokes for different folks!
Lastly, My biggest tip for foot fetish subs…
Dedicate some time to learning massage techniques!
You wouldn’t even have to pay (although you could if you wanted to!). YouTube is full of tutorials. A quick search on ‘foot massage’ has thrown up over 852,000 results for Me. Some of them are as short as 3 minutes, others go on for nearly an hour.
Take some time to learn foot anatomy and massage technique. Although massage is mostly about hands, I guarantee you such knowledge would improve any worship you do with your mouth too. If you are a foot fetishist, I highly doubt watching these videos would be more of a chore than they would excitable… so you really have no excuse do you?
A slave knowledgeable in reflexology or Thai or Swedish foot massage would impress Me no end. In fact, I don’t know of a single Domme who wouldn’t love to have a trained foot masseuse at Her beck and call. I am no exception.
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