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My passion for BDSM comes from the Exchange
of Power, which naturally lends itself to many different fetishes within Kink Play. 

If I do not enjoy an activity then I do not partake in it, so rest assured that if you are accepted as My slave I will be enjoying Myself just as much as you! If you require inspiration, below I have listed some areas of interest I often explore. 

This is followed by suggestions on more specific activities. As your session will be specially tailored to your own likes and dislikes, you may freely pick and choose from any of these areas and/or activities.


Boots, Gloves, High Heels, Jodphurs, Latex/Rubber, Lingerie, Nylons, Shoes, Satin, Silk, Stockings.


Candle Wax, Electrics, Nipple Play, Scratching, Sensory Deprivation, Tickling, Urethral Play.


Armpits/Sweat Fetish, Ass, Face Sitting, Legs, Hands, Feet, Muscles, Tie and Tease, Sensual Domination.


Ballbusting, Caning, CBT, Flogging, Needle Play, Paddling, Post Orgasm Torture, Spanking, Trampling, Whipping.


Cuckolding, Cum Eating, Face Slapping, Small Penis Humiliation, Spitting, Sploshing, Verbal Humiliation, Sissification, Watersports.


Blackmail, Bondage, Breath Play, Caging, Confinement, Financial Domination, Gas Masks, Mummification, Rope, Smothering.


Anal Play, Chastity Keyholding, Cock Milking, Domestic Servitude, Edging, Human Furniture, Maid Duties, Orgasm Control/Denial, Ruined Orgasms, Slave Training.


Cuckolding Fantasy, Castration Fantasy, Forced Feminisation, Forced Bisexuality, Kidnap Scenes, Medical Play, Pony Play, Puppy Play, Role-play.


Double/Multi Mistress Sessions, Sessions for Couples/Females, Filmed Sessions, Play Event Escort. I am also available for both Shopping Trips and Dinner Dates at a 'social' rate.

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Whilst I hesitate to say I specialise
in any one area, I am often asked what are My favourite things to do whilst playing. Below is a little more detail about My own Top Three fetishes, plus My thoughts on playing with novice slaves and filming.

Ruined Orgasms

My most favourite way to torment you slaves, especially if it is after a prolonged edging. I love to drain your balls without even giving you the pleasure of an orgasm, by just letting go at the crucial moment. I can only imagine what a mind fuck it must be to see your ruining dribble out of you, leaving you even more frustrated than before...

Foot Worship

My dainty and perfectly formed UK Size 2 feet have high arches and are always pristinely manicured with blood red nail varnish. As I spend most of My day tottering around in sky high heels I relish the chance to sit back and have them massaged and worshipped by an adoring slave...


My collection is ever growing, and there is nothing I love than slipping into some tight rubber clothing and commanding My slaves to shine Me up. Perhaps once you have finished I will tease you, smothering you with My latex clad ass?


I believe that My sensual style of Domination is well suited to the more timorous first timers amongst you. Whether you are looking for a traditional and unrelenting Domme, or a simply sophisticated kinky lady who is always in control, I am adept at altering the intensity and formality of your session to better suit your fantasies and needs. You can find more information on what to expect from your session with Me on My FAQ page.


Wouldn't you love to have a souvenir of your play time with Me in the form of a film of O/our session?

Whilst the price of a video for your personal use only does require a higher tribute, I am happy to waive this extra fee should you allow Me to add any content filmed to My C4S/IWantClips store. You may of course appear masked if you wish, and you will receive a copy of any clips I make.

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Be aware that I do not offer any of the following during My sessions...

  • Sexual Services, including unclothed facesitting, oral/reverse oral, rimming and full/penetrative sex.

  • Hardsports, Vomiting or Bloodsports Sessions.
  • No Safeword/No Mercy, 'Beat-Down' or Wrestling Sessions

  • Anything that poses a serious risk of permanent injury or threat to life (such as extreme ballbusting or extreme breathplay)

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Manchester Mistress Lola Ruin • Professional Dominatrix