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Below are a list of questions
I am often asked with regards to My sessions. Click to see the relevant answers.

General and Availability
What is Your tribute?

My rates are in line with standard tributes for Professional Dominatrixes, however certain activities (such as filming for your personal use, sploshing, etc) do require an additional tribute.

To be given an accurate tribute, fill in the Slave Application Form, giving full details.

What is Your booking procedure?

My same day sessions have a different procedure, so if you are interested in a same day session, check the question pertaining to that opposite.

My booking procedure for sessions booked in advance is as follows...

  • You submit your Slave Application form, filling in all relevant details

  • Assuming your interests match Mine, I will reply to you via email with My thoughts on your application and to confirm My availability

  • Once W/we have agreed to set a date/time for your session, I will send you a some further information on My session etiquette.

  • I will ask you to call at a certain time on the day of your session to confirm. You may call Me before then to discuss your session, however email is generally best.

What happens when I arrive?

Once you arrive at My chambers, I will show you into whichever room you requested or suits your fantasies best. I will offer you a drink and W/we will have an informal chat to establish your likes/dislikes and hard limits. The more information you can give Me during this consultation chat the better. This allows U/us to both fully enjoy the session from start to finish without any stop-starts. 

I will then give you further instructions on how to prepare yourself for your session, and then leave you alone for a few minutes. Once I re-enter the room your 'play' begins, and lasts for however long you have booked for (when planning your day, I would recommend adding 30 minutes to however many hours you have booked for. This gives U/us ample time to chat and refresh, and ensures W/we are not rushed).

After your session has finished, you will be offered the chance to have a shower or have another drink if you wish. W/we will also have another informal chat, where you are welcome to give Me any feedback you have about how the session went for you. Both positive and negative feedback is appreciated, and helps Me learn more about your likes/dislikes. As with your consultation, the more information you can give Me the better any future sessions with Me will be!

Do You ever come to London?

I do occasionally visit London, however I by no means have a regular touring schedule.

Should you wish to be notified of any London Dates, the best thing to do is to Subscribe to My Mailing List, or keep a close eye on My Twitter and Blog for any announcements.

If you simply cannot wait, I am open to offers from generous slaves who wish to fund a London Tour, email Me to discuss.

Can I bring you to my city?

I am happy to consider offers from generous slaves whom wish to arrange for Me to visit their city specifically to session with them. You can find further details of the tribute required in the answer to 'Do you offer outcall sessions?' in the next FAQ section.

I will also consider offers to travel internationally. Email Me to discuss further.

When are You usually available?

My schedule for the next 2 months can be seen on My Calendar.

Sessions at other times are only occasionally available, and require at least 3 working days notice and a non-refundable deposit paid in advance in order to secure.

Do You offer same day bookings?

I can offer same day bookings on any of the days I am showing as available on My Calendar. Although many slaves believe I live in the chambers, the truth is that I travel in for My sessions. Whilst I am happy to offer same day sessions, I do have some stipulations. If you wish to try and arrange a same day session, the booking procedure is as follows.

  • After checking My Calendar, you call Me on 07494 793 869 to book. All same day sessions must be made prior to 12.00 midday. 

  • You send a small non-refundable deposit (either bank transfer or giftcard) which will be deducted from your final session tribute

  • Ideally I would also like you to fill out My Slave Application form, which gives Me all the information I need in order to fully prepare for your session

Do You offer late evening sessions?

I am often available to serve until 21.30. To double check My availability, refer to My Calendar. If you are looking for a late session on another evening, I will need at least 3 working days notice and a non-refundable deposit in order to secure this for you.

Do you session over the weekend?

I usually spend My weekend with friends and family, however I can occasionally accommodate requests for weekend sessions. The more notice you can give Me the better, and all weekend sessions will need a non-refundable deposit in order to secure. 

How much notice do You need?

For same day sessions, all bookings must be made before 12.00 midday.

For advance bookings, I need at least 24 hours notice, however, I would generally advise contacting Me at least a few days prior to your preferred date. The more notice you give Me the more likely you will be in securing your session with Me.

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Sessions and Slaves

What is Your minimum appointment time?

My minimum appointment time is a 1 hour session. I do not offer 15 minute or 30 minute sessions.

Is my consultation chat or my shower afterwards taken off my play time?

If you book an hour long session with Me, you will get one hour of 1-on-1 play time. This does not include your consultation chat beforehand or any time spent chatting afterwards.

As such, I would recommend adding 30 minutes to however many hours you have booked for so that W/we are not rushed before or after your session. This gives U/us ample time to discuss your fantasies in full prior to playing, and allows you time to shower and refresh afterwards.

What are your fetishes/specialities?

An extensive but by no means exhaustive list of some of My favourite fetishes and My specialities can be found onthe Fetishes page.

What are your limits?

I do not offer any of the following during My sessions...

  • Sexual Services, including unclothed facesitting, oral/reverse oral, rimming and full/penetrative sex.
  • Hardsports, Vomiting or Bloodsports Sessions.
  • No Safeword/No Mercy, 'Beat-Down' or Wrestling Sessions
  • Anything that poses a serious risk of permanent injury or threat to life (such as extreme ballbusting or extreme breathplay)

Do you offer outcall sessions?

Yes, with some caveats...

  • If you wish to see Me in a hotel then you will need to provide Me with your hotel booking information.

  • Sessions in private residences are only available to slaves who are well known to Me. If this will be O/our first session then I insist that I bring an escort with Me (they will not disrupt or disturb your session, simply sit in another room), and there is a surcharge of £50 per hour of sessioning to remunerate My escort for their time.

  • Outcalls within Manchester are subject to a surcharge of £50 on top of My hourly tribute.

  • Outcalls outside of Manchester must be to a 4* or above hotel, or a rented dungeon of good standing. City visits are subject to a surcharge of £50 plus an additional £50 per hour of travel to destination and travel expenses.  If I will be travelling for 3+ hours I may also request for you to pay overnight accommodation for Me.

All outcall sessions must be booked 1 week in advance and secured with a non-refundable 30% deposit plus surcharges.

Do you accept newbie/novice slaves?

I love to session with novice slaves, however I understand that your very first session with a Professional Dominatrix can be as nerve-wracking as it is exciting.

I believe that My sensual form of Domination is well suited to the more timorous first timers amongst you. Whether you are looking for a traditional, unrelenting Domme, or a sophisticated, kinky lady who is always in control, I am adept at altering the intensity and formality of your session to better suit your fantasies and needs.

My aim is not only to introduce you to My world of Domination gently, but also to give you a memorable and enjoyable first session. I hope that afterwards, you can't wait to experience a session again!

I tailor every session to My submissives' favourite fetishes. Rest assured I will not spring something on you that you have not previously expressed an interest in exploring.

Do you accept female slaves and/or couples?

Yes! The sessions I have previously held with female slaves and with couples have been amongst My all time favourites. I am bisexual and so genuinely love to play with both slave girls and slave boys... even better when I get to play with both at the same time!

Are you currently accepting film and/or personal slaves?

I am open to offers of both film and personal slavery.
Click on the relevant link below to be taken to a blog post with further information...

Film slaves

Personal slaves

Do you offer Double Domme/Multi Mistress sessions?

Yes, I adore working with other Mistresses!

I am available regularly for Double Domme/Multi Mistress sessions with any of the Mistresses of The Manchester Chambers, however I would also consider sessioning with other established, well-respected Professional Dominatrixes if you already have someone else in mind.

Do you always take deposits for your sessions?

I do not take a deposit for every session I take. However, I will occasionally ask for one (and offer a discreet payment method) in certain circumstances. Some examples include...

  • A session duration of 3 hours or longer

  • A session requiring advanced preparation (smelly foot/muddy boots)

  • If you previously cancelled numerous times with less than 24 hours notice

  • Outcall sessions

  • Touring sessions

Unfortunately, those whom get a thrill simply from the booking procedure not only waste My time but also stop other submissives from playing with Me. Having said that, I do understand that sometimes things come up last minute. Whilst all deposits are non-refundable, if this is your first time cancelling then I will discount your deposit towards a future session, however I will not apply this to any subsequent cancellations.
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Location and Chambers

Where are you based?

I hold the majority of My sessions in Manchester, more specifically Ashton-Under-Lyne in East Manchester.

If you are looking for a session with Me in London, you can Subscribe to My Mailing List to be notified of tour dates. If you would like Me to visit your City or Country, Email Me to discuss.

Are you close to public transport?

Yes. My chambers are only a 5-10 minute walk from Ashton-Under-Lyne Metrolink Stop, Railway Station and Bus Station.

Is there parking nearby?

Yes, there is always plenty of free parking within a few minutes walk of the chambers.

Will we be alone in the building?

There is always another person present in the building when I am sessioning, for both my safety and yours. However, do not be put off by this. The building is large enough to offer U/us complete privacy, and during your visit you will only meet Me and Me alone.

Are your chambers discreet?

My chambers are incredibly discreet, and are located in an industrial area with no nosy curtain twitchers!

I have a disability, are your chambers accessible?

The bottom floor of My chambers is accessible via a ramp, with a large dungeon themed room available. Unfortunately My bathroom is up a flight of stairs, and as such does not allow for wheelchair access.

Alternatively, I am able to travel to submissives who use wheelchairs, and will waive My outcall surcharge. For further details, read the answer to 'Do You offer outcall sessions?' under the 'Sessions and Slaves' section above.

What equipment do you have at the chambers?

The chambers are fully equipped with an abundance of toys to play with, including a selection of whips, crops, canes, hoods, leather body bags, straight jackets, gags, dildos, strap-ons, sounds, electrics and of course My Venus 2000 milking machine!

Should you have something specific in mind do not listed above, let Me know so that I can double check for you.

What themed rooms/settings are available?

Currently the Chambers have 5 different themed rooms...

  • Black Dungeon Room

  • Plum Dungeon Room

  • Red Chamber Room

  • Medical Room

  • Domestic Study Room

There is also a 'welcome area' which doubles up as a domestic setting for those so inclined. If you wish, you can take a video tour and view galleries of the chambers.

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Do You sell any clips online?

I certainly do!

You can find links to My Clips4Sale, IWantClips and OnlyFans profiles in the footer of My website below.

Do you offer custom clips?

Yes! I love to fulfil kinky fantasies with clips filmed to your specifications.

To submit a custom request, simply go to this page of My website and fill out the relevant information. A rough idea of pricing can also be found there too.

Do you offer webcam/phone domination?

For slaves who are too far away (or too scared) to come and serve Me in person, I am available for both webcam sessions and phone sessions through Adultwork and Niteflirt. The links to My profile on each of these can be found in the footer of My website below.

Although I would much prefer to hold My distance sessions through the above websites, if you do not wish to open an account you may add Me on Skype (Mistress-Lola) in order to discuss alternative tribute methods.

Do you offer text domination?

I am currently experimenting with offering text Domination over Kik.

To discuss tributes, you can add Me on Kik (Mistress.Lola.Ruin) or scan the code below to begin chatting. 

Can I take you out shopping/for dinner/to a party?

I relish the opportunity to get to know My fans a little more intimately over a shopping trip, dinner date or as a fetish party escort.

Such meetings still require a tribute, however this is charged at a lower 'social' rate as opposed to My 'session' rate. Email Me for more details.

Can I take you on a date?

Whilst I am flattered, if I were to ever date a submissive this would be on My terms and My terms alone. Generally speaking I do not like to be approached through work for dates, as immediately I already feel as though a boundary has been crossed. Do not do this.

If you wish to session with Me then please go ahead and get in touch, however if you are looking for a kinky girlfriend then I recommend Fetlife as your starting point!

May I buy you a gift?

Whilst gifts are not mandatory, they are always appreciated.

For inspiration, have a look at My Wishlist.

Do you sell any used items?

I occasionally sell used items such as worn knickers, stockings, socks and shoes.

If you are interested in any of these items, Email Me to enquire.

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Manchester Mistress Lola Ruin • Professional Dominatrix