Contact

I only accept sessions through My Session Request Form below. Whilst you are welcome to make a more general enquiry through phone or email, you will be referred back here to send Me a session request prior to being accepted as a prospective slave.

Please ensure you have a browse through My FAQs if you have any questions as you may already find an answer there. 
If you wish to make a more general enquiry not covered by My FAQs below prior to booking your session, you can also contact Me on...

07494 793 869

(Please note that I do not respond to texts or answer withheld numbers)
Frequently Asked Questions...
Below are a list of questions I am often asked with regards to My sessions. Click to see the relevant answers.
General...
What is Your tribute?
My rates are in line with standard tributes for Professional Dominatrixes, however certain activities (such as filming) do require a higher tribute.
To be given an accurate tribute, please fill in the Session Request Form.
What is Your booking procedure?
The first step towards making a booking with Me is to fill out the Session Request form.
If you are a novice, or would simply like more information about what to expect, you may find the information on My Booking and Session Information page helpful.
Do You ever come to London?
I do occasionally visit London, however I by no means have a regular touring schedule. 
Should you wish to be notified of any London Dates, the best thing to do is to subscribe to My Mailing List, or keep a close eye on My Twitter and Blog for any announcements.
If you simply cannot wait, I am open to offers from generous slaves who wish to fund a London Tour. Please email Me to discuss if so. 
Can I bring you to My City?
I am happy to consider offers from generous slaves whom wish to arrange for Me to visit their city specifically to session with them. I will also consider offers to travel internationally. Please email Me to discuss further. 
Availability...
When are You usually available?
I am available every Monday through Friday from 12.00 until 19.30.
Sessions outside of My regular hours are also available, however I require a deposit paid in advance in order to secure your booking.
Do You offer weekend or late evening sessions?
I do not make a habit of working late into the evening or through the weekend, however if you can give Me enough notice and are happy and able to pay a deposit in advance then I will try to accommodate requests for weekend and evening sessions.
How much notice do You need?
All of My bookings must be made 24 hours in advance, however I would advise contacting Me at least a few days prior to your preferred date. The more notice you give Me the more likely you will be in securing your session with Me.
Do You offer same day bookings?
I generally need at least 24 hours notice in order to secure your session.
However, if you wish to get in touch on the off chance that I have had a cancellation please feel free to try. The earlier you contact Me and the more flexible you can be with regards to session time, the more likely I might be able to squeeze you in.
Location...
Where are You based?
I hold the majority of My sessions in Manchester, more specifically Ashton-Under-Lyne in East Manchester.
If you are looking for a session with Me in London, or elsewhere, you can Subscribe to My Mailing List to be notified of tour dates.
Are You close to public transport links?
Yes. My chambers are only a 5-10 minute walk from Ashton-Under-Lyne Metrolink Stop, Railway Station and Bus Station.
Is there free parking nearby?
Yes, there is always plenty of free parking within a few minutes walk of the chambers.
Chambers...
Are Your chambers discreet?
My chambers are incredibly discreet, and are located in an industrial area with no nosy curtain twitchers!
I have a disability, are Your chambers accessible?
The bottom floor of My chambers is accessible via a ramp with both a Dungeon themed chamber and Medical themed room available for use.
Unfortunately the toilet facilities are not modified to allow for access, so please bear this in mind when booking.
Are Your chambers fully equipped?
Yes, the chambers are fully equipped with an abundance of toys to play with. However, should you have something specific in mind do let Me know so that I can double check for you.
What themed rooms/settings are available?
Currently the Chambers have 4 different themed rooms...
  • Purple Dungeon Room
  • Red Chamber Room
  • Medical Room
  • School/Domestic Room
Sessions...
What is Your minimum appointment time?
My minimum appointment time is a 1 hour session.
Unfortunately I do not offer 15 minute or 30 minute sessions.
Is my consultation chat taken off my play time?
If you book an hour long session with Me, you will get one hour of 1-on-1 play time. This does not include your consultation chat beforehand or any time spent chatting afterwards.
As such, I would recommend adding 30 minutes to however many hours you have booked for so that W/we are not rushed before or after your session. This gives U/us ample time to discuss your fantasies in full prior to playing, and allows you time to shower and refresh afterwards.
What is Your speciality? What do You not offer?
An extensive but by no means exhaustive list of some of My most popular session requests, specialities and My own personal limits can be found on the Fetishes page.
Are You available for Double Domme/Multi Mistress sessions?
Yes, I adore working with other Mistresses!
I am available regularly for Double Domme/Multi Mistress sessions with any of the Mistresses of The Manchester Chambers, however I would also consider sessioning with other established, well-respected Professional Dominatrixes if you already have someone else in mind.
Do You offer outcall sessions?
Yes, however this is generally a privilege reserved only for slaves already known to Me.
If I have never sessioned with you before, then an outcall must be secured with a 30% deposit.
Do You always take deposits?
I do not take a deposit for every session I take. However, I will occasionally ask for one (and offer a discreet payment method) at My discretion and in certain circumstances. Some examples include... 
  • A session duration of 3 hours or longer
  • A session requiring advanced preparation (smelly foot/muddy boots) 
  • If you previously cancelled numerous times with less than 24 hours notice
  • Outcall sessions
  • Touring sessions
Unfortunately, those whom get a thrill simply from the booking procedure not only waste My time but also stop other submissives from playing with Me. Having said that, I do understand that sometimes things come up last minute. I will happily discount your deposit towards a future session when you cancel for the first time, however I will not apply this to any subsequent cancellations. 

 

Slaves...
Do You see newbie/novice slaves?
I love to session with novice slaves, however I understand that your very first session with a Professional Dominatrix can be as nerve-wracking as it is exciting.
For the more timorous slaves amongst you, I have written a  Booking and Session Information page with more information on what to expect from your session with Me.
Do You accept female slaves or couples?
Yes! The sessions I have previously held with female slaves and with couples have been amongst My all time favourites. I am bisexual and so genuinely love to play with both slave girls and slave boys... even better when I get to play with both at the same time!
Are You currently accepting film/personal slaves?
I am not currently accepting film slave applications.
I am however open to applications for slaves who wish to serve Me in a personal setting. Please see My Blog Post for further details.
Other Services...
Do You have a Clips4Sale store and/or offer custom clips?
I love filming and currently have hundreds of clips available to purchase from My C4S Store.
I also take requests for custom clips, if you wish to submit one you can do so using My Custom Clip Request form.
Do You offer webcam/phone domination?
For slaves who are too far away (or too scared) to come and serve Me in person, I am available for both webcam sessions and phone sessions through Adultwork and Niteflirt.
Although I would much prefer to hold My distance sessions through the above websites, if you do not wish to open an account you may add Me on Skype (Mistress-Lola) in order to discuss alternative tribute methods.
Do You sell any used items?
I occasionally sell used items such as worn knickers, stockings, socks and shoes.
If you are interested in any of these items, drop Me an email at mistresslolaruin@hotmail.com to enquire.
May I buy You a gift?
Whilst gifts are not mandatory, they are always appreciated.
For inspiration, have a look at My Wishlist.

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